Someone I went home with did two things I was very much not cool with, which were:
-porn-talking -trying to put it in me without a condom
So that was sort of a more unpleasant afternoon than I had really been hoping for at the time*. I think I said something non-committal about meeting later over some historical documents, but that seems like a bad idea. Pity, because the historical documents would have been interesting.
In other, better news, I am loosely entangled with someone who appears to respect me as a person. I suspect we disagree fundamentally on some things (sex drive, ultimate comfort level with open relationships**), but for now we are in a honest place, and it is working, and that is a relief.
*A certain portion of me is not sure which one is worse.
**Weirdly enough, given the above anecdote, I am the person who is probably not so comfortable with the idea over the long term.***
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Date: 2010-10-15 06:25 pm (UTC)-porn-talking
-trying to put it in me without a condom
So that was sort of a more unpleasant afternoon than I had really been hoping for at the time*. I think I said something non-committal about meeting later over some historical documents, but that seems like a bad idea. Pity, because the historical documents would have been interesting.
In other, better news, I am loosely entangled with someone who appears to respect me as a person. I suspect we disagree fundamentally on some things (sex drive, ultimate comfort level with open relationships**), but for now we are in a honest place, and it is working, and that is a relief.
*A certain portion of me is not sure which one is worse.
**Weirdly enough, given the above anecdote, I am the person who is probably not so comfortable with the idea over the long term.***
***You almost certainly know who I am now.